Thursday, April 28, 2022

5 Building a Good Day

“We need to learn how to structure a day that is rich in meaning and joy-producing activities. … How we spend our time defines who we are. There is no magical future. Today is our future” (p 29).

How do you structure your day?

Hopefully by now you’ve got a good enough regula going: some routine for reading today’s Good Enough chapter and this Good Enough blog post and leaving a Good Enough comment.

It may not always happen at the same time every day, but hopefully you’re creating a sacred rhythm of carving out some time and space in your day for time spent with God in prayer and study.

You’ve got to be thoughtful about this because, as they say in the book, a day is a limited thing, only as big as a mason jar (from the opening illustration on pages 28-29). So you’ve got to decide what Big Stones and Small Stones will fit in your day.

If you’re reading this in the morning, don’t start planning today yet. Instead, think back over yesterday. (There’s a sacred rhythm called the “daily examen” that can help with that. It’s a favorite evening ritual of mine.)

If you’re reading this at night, think back over today.

What big loves (big stones) found their way in to your jar? Which ones didn’t but you wish they had? What little loves (little stones) found room to wriggle their way in?

Or, did your jar seem so full of unwanted things (shards of glass and sand), there was no room left for loves, big or little?

What meaningful and joy-producing activities do you wish had been a part of your day? Why weren’t they? How can you change that tomorrow?

I appreciate the point the authors make toward the end of the reading, that in some seasons in life, our jars may be very small, and we may only be able to fit a few things into them. Again, as someone who is living a more limited life now because of health concerns, I cannot cram as many stones into my jar as I used to. (Well, I could, but I’d probably give myself a seizure.)

Some days, it’s good enough to only have a few stones in our jar. 

“To be human is to accept that we are limited and the more honesty we have about that, the better” (p 31). 

(I love that. If you do too, you should read Kate Bowler’s excellent book, No Cure for Being Human.)

Let your big loves in first. Prioritize them. Then let the rest come as they will. That’s good enough.

From “A Prayer at the Start of the Day” (for the early birds among us!):

You are the kindness that runs to find me wherever I have wandered off to. You are the faithfulness I don’t have enough of. You are my safe harbor in the midst of the storm. And in that quiet place, speak gently to me of what needs to change in order for Your freedom to free me, Your love to care through me, and Your faithfulness to strengthen me.” (p 32)

Pastor Allison

 

I’m curious:

From page 33: “Think about the day you’ll have tomorrow. Is there anything you can cross off or kick down the road? Don’t crowd your day.”

“What are your big loves? Allow them to take up space.”

“Then, do it again tomorrow.”

How we spend our time defines who we are. 

Thoughts? Questions? Thoughts on my questions? Share them with me in the comments!